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There is more to BDSM than just leather and bondages. Despite all the taboos and misunderstanding that surrounds it, there has been a rise in popularity in recent years.  We see a lot of new BDSM dating apps around, and a rise in bondage sex trendiness.  We therefore feel that having a good knowledge of what exactly BDSM englobes will not only demystify the whole topic, help you bring diversity in your sex life but also and most importantly, get to “bond” more with our sensual leather girls in the featured section.

What is BDSM?

BDSM is a term that encompasses a range of consensual erotic practices involving . It is a diverse and dynamic form of sexual and psychological exploration that emphasizes trust, communication, and mutual consent.

According to sex and relationship expert at sexyclic.dating:

BDSM is used to describe certain aspects of sex that can be split into these major groups: bondage and discipline, domination and submission, sadism and masochism.

“it’s important to get informed as much as you can on bondage, discipline, domination, submission, sadism and masochism before you try BDSM with a partner.  In order to enjoy BDSM sex, you’ll need to know what you’re doing and how to do it safely.  Although some people think that BDSM is ‘kinky‘, in some cases it doesn’t have to involve sex at all – the mental connotations of some acts are more of a turn-on than the prelude of a particular act leading to sex.  Many specific practices by lovers who indulge in BDSM are performed in neutral, mutually consenting relationships. This emphasis on informed consent is of paramount importance when carrying out a BDSM act because BDSM often involves varying degrees of pain, physical restraint and servitude.”

Here’s some of the main tips you should follow:

Don’t rely on implied consent

Be willing to speak honestly about your desires and boundaries

Don’t think of consent as something to get out of the way before you can play

What is domination?

It is of primary importance to first decide who’s going to play the dominant role and who’s going to play the submissive. “It’s extremely important for both of you to interchange and play both roles so you can both experience being in control of your shared sexual destiny. Quite simply, the dominant role will demonstrate skill and power and will control the submissive role.” says bondage and fetish expert, Marika Leila Roux and CEO of Shibari Study, a globally run online course that teaches the practice of Shibari rope bondage.

The dominant/submissive dynamic is often also referred to as top/bottom. “In BDSM, the top is the dominant partner who dishes out the spanking, bondage, clamping and whipping, and the ‘bottom’ is the submissive partner,” she says.

Annabelle explains that the position of the submissive lover is “one of trust and learning”. She says it involves “giving away the reins to your mind and body and allowing your lover to take them fully”. As much as being a submissive is about relinquishing control, she is keen to point out you will not cease to have a voice.

It’s extremely important for both of you to play both roles

To be followed in episode 2:  BDSM (Part 2)

BARBARA COX

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I was convinced that all the sexy nurse stereotypes were not true at all.

Most nurses were nice, helpful, but always in a hurry. They generally just took care of business. In my experience, the hospital situation never lent itself to anything sexy.

Except for Anastasia. She was a pretty woman in her mid-twenties, maybe five years younger than me. I don’t know what it was about her, but I couldn’t keep from looking her up and down as she came in several times to check on me.

I was only staying at the hospital for one night, after a fairly minor knee surgery. Except for my sore knee, I was feeling pretty good after the operation.

After a few visits from Anastasia to see how I was doing, I soon found myself looking forward to the next time she would come in to my private room.

I made the mistake of allowing myself to fantasize about her, wondering what she looked like underneath those generic hospital scrubs.

Bored with the TV in my room, I closed my eyes and thought about Anastasia’s friendly eyes, pretty smile, and nice firm ass.

I hated seeing her leave my room, but I loved admiring her tight little ass as she walked away!

And whenever she would bend over to check my pulse and temperature, her V-neck top showed me just enough to make me wish I could see more. She was so firm, so round.

Damn, I was lying there getting a hard-on just from thinking about her. The hospital didn’t seem to be the right place to do anything about it by myself, so I tried to just ignore my hardening cock.

I tossed and turned a bit under the sheets, but only succeeded in making myself even more uncomfortable.

Now I had that stupid hospital gown wadded up around my waist and under my back. It was then that Anastasia walked in and told me she was coming to check on me one last time.

“I’ll be getting off work at midnight, Christian” she said. “And you’ll be going home in the morning, so I just thought I’d check on you one more time this evening. Are you comfortable enough to fall asleep?”

Naturally, she was only wondering if my knee hurt too much.

I replied that my knee seemed okay, but the hospital gown wasn’t something I was used to sleeping in. She laughed, saying most patients felt that way.

I was really just wondering if there was any painful swelling in your knee, Christian. Mind if I take a look?

I told her to go ahead and check out my knee, but that my clothes were all twisted around and I wasn’t very well covered up.

She giggled a little and said, “Well, Christian like I said – mind if I take a look? If there’s any swelling, I’ll try to make you feel more comfortable.”

She blushed a little and I realized that her choice of the word “swelling” was an intentional tease.

She took my speechless stare as a “yes” and pulled the sheet all the way off me. I wasn’t fully erect, but my cock was definitely swollen, pulsing, growing as she watched.

“Well” she said matter-of-fact, “I don’t see any swelling in the knee – but you definitely do have a swelling problem there!”

Her laugh was so god damn sexy which it made my cock jump.

“I can tell you’re the kind of guy who doesn’t usually wear clothes in bed, right?”

I nodded dumbly, breathless as she reached behind my neck and untied the string holding the gown in place. Her sexy body was inches from my face, and my cock really started to rise.

“Let’s just get rid of this thing altogether” she said, untying the other knots behind my back and tossing the garment aside.

I was now totally naked, cock sticking straight up, pulsating with my pounding heart. I was on display, and Anastasia left me in agony for thirty seconds as she just stared and enjoyed the show.

She gave me just enough of a wicked grin to make my cock even harder. Her fingertips teased me as she ran her hands lightly through my chest hair, watching my cock jerk involuntarily.

“I know what you’re thinking, Christian,” she laughed. “But you know, lots of patients have fantasies about nurses. So, don’t be embarrassed.”

She pulled the sheets back over me.

My hard cock started to relax as I began to realize that nothing was going to happen after all. I couldn’t help staring at her body as she leaned over me.

I could see just a hint of the beautiful lacy bra she was wearing, and I was dying to see more.

You really do have a problem there, Christian, she continued, giving me that sexy smile.

She felt my forehead and said I felt a little too warm.

Since I’m a medical professional, I could help with that if you want me to. Like I said, I get off work at midnight. Maybe I could come back then and check your vital signs one more time?

God, I was breathless with anticipation, afraid to believe she meant what I hoped she meant.

She hesitated, then murmured “oh, fuck it!”, and abruptly pulled back the sheet and wrapped her fingers tightly around my cock, squeezing it to full throbbing erection in an instant.

“Oh sweet Jesus” she whispered hoarsely, “that is a fucking nice cock you have there”.

She let go with her hand and leaned forward, her lips parted, and swallowed my cock in one deep, wet gulp.

She sucked hungrily on it for a few seconds and pulled away breathlessly, leaving a string of saliva that ran down onto her chin and dripped onto her chest.

She looked at my saliva-coated dick and the wet spots on her top and said, “I just wanted to give us both something to think about as I finish my shift. If that swelling problem persists, I’ll be glad to take care of it for you later tonight. See you at midnight, Christian!”

She wiped her chin, pulled the sheet over me, and hurried out of the room.

I had no idea what was going to happen, but my cock throbbed as I lay there thinking about it. I was in agony for a while, but eventually my heart stopped pounding and my cock relaxed when somebody brought in my evening meal.

After eating, I realized I had been awake for nearly twenty hours. I found something boring on TV and soon fell asleep.

I awoke with a start – the TV was still on, and I could see that it was a few minutes past midnight. I grabbed the remote and turned off the TV; the room was totally dark.

I heard voices outside my door. I heard someone saying “good night”, then there was silence.

My door opened and all I could see was a shapely female silhouette. Then the door closed and I could hear the sound of the door being locked.

Hi there, Christian” came the familiar sound of Anastasia’s voice. I’ll bet you were wondering if I’d really show up!

She flipped on a small night light around the corner, and the room was filled with a dim light. I could see that she was no longer in her hospital scrubs.

Anastasia was wearing her “civilian” clothes, and looked fantastic just wearing jeans and a loose-fitting blouse that buttoned down the front.

“Well, Christian” she said as she walked toward me. “I hope you’ve been resting well these past few hours – I may keep you up for a while!”

She smiled and came over and sat beside me, asking how my knee was doing. I replied that it hurt some, especially if I tried to move. Anastasia put her hand on my forehead, saying I still felt a little warm.

Don’t worry, Christian” she said. “You don’t need to move at all. I’m going to take good care of you, and I’ll do all the work!

She stood up and unbuttoned her jeans, turning away from me as she did so.

I stared at her shapely ass as she giggled and pulled her jeans down, wiggling out of them and letting them drop to the floor.

She turned to face me as she stepped out of her jeans, and I could see how tight and sexy her legs were. My cock began to really get hard.

She sat back down on the bed next to me and leaned over to kiss me. Her lips were so soft and sensual. As her tongue darted out to tease at my lips, her hand slid under the sheets and found its way to the base of my cock.

Her fingers slowly wrapped themselves around my throbbing hard shaft and held it in a firm grip. Her hand began a slight movement, barely pumping up and down, maddeningly slow. What a heavenly torture!

“Touch me, Christian”, she whispered. “Don’t you want to touch me?”

She kissed me deeply as her hand increased its pumping motion, moving in agonizingly slow but insistent strokes.

Her pace quickened even more as my fingers went to work on the buttons of her blouse. Soon her top was open, revealing those tantalizing curves I had been fantasizing about.

I anxiously fumbled with the clasps at the front of her bra, my hands trembling as if I were a nervous high school kid. I managed to unhook her bra, letting her gorgeous breasts fall free.

Anastasia groaned as she leaned forward and pressed her warm flesh to my mouth. I sucked hungrily at her hardened nipples; she was pumping so fucking hard now on my cock.

Suddenly she stood up, tossing away her clothes and stripping off her panties. Her pussy was smooth and her nipples jutted out so perfectly.

I pulled away the sheets and watched her beautiful naked body as she reached down and continued to jerk faster and faster up and down on my shaft, now working with both hands.

I want you to taste my pussy now, Christian she said.

I’ve been wet for you all day, and I can’t stop thinking about how wonderful that big cock felt in my mouth. I’ve been dying for another taste of that nice, hot swollen dick. Won’t you tell me how good my pussy tastes? Please, Christian?”

She crawled up on top of me and quickly wiggled her way into a perfect sixty-nine position. She spread her legs wide on either side of my chest, and thrust that beautiful ass and steaming wet pussy right in front of my face.

“Just put your tongue in me, baby, I’ll do all the work” she said, and started grinding her ass and pussy down across my face.

I stuck out my tongue and she actually fucked herself on my mouth and tongue. She was gushing wet, and my hands ran over her gorgeous ass as I just tried to hang on.

I could feel Anastasia’s tongue snaking its way over the head of my cock, and I could feel a stream of saliva run down the shaft and onto my balls.

Her hand was still jacking me off, and soon I could feel my balls tighten as her drooling wetness coated my shaft. She could tell, from the way my lubed up shaft pulsed in her hands that I was already going to cum.

Hmmm, that’s so good, she moaned. “You’re so excited, Christian! I’m so glad you’re enjoying this, baby. Please don’t hold back, now – let it cum for me, Christian, let it cum!”

Her hands slid underneath my ass as her mouth opened wide, her tongue lapping madly at the swollen head of my cock.

I could hear her breathless moaning as she lowered her head, engulfing my cock, her cries becoming muffled as her mouth was filled with hot throbbing dick.

I was tongue fucking her pussy wildly as her head began to bob up and down, deep and wet. It was so wet and noisy and sloppy, and I loved the creamy deliciousness of her pussy.

In no time at all, I lost control and began erupting streams of thick cum into her hot mouth.

I could feel Anastasia’s ass quivering as her own orgasm rocked her body, my hands gripping tight to the hot sexy globes of her unbelievable ass.

She was slurping and swallowing, gobbling up every bit of cum. It felt like she was sucking the cum right out of my balls.

Oh my god, Christian she said breathlessly as she turned to face me. “I love the way you eat my pussy, I want to watch you do it. Please don’t stop – I want more!

She wiped off her chin and straddled my shoulders, her pussy spread wide in front of me. She was so fucking turned on, and by this point she had no inhibitions.

“Keep going, Christian, I don’t want it to stop. Please make me cum again!”

She reached down and began to rub her clitoris as I gripped her ass cheeks tightly with both my hands. I pulled her down roughly onto my face and began to give her pussy a deep, wet workout with my tongue.

The heavenly smoothness of her inner thighs felt so unbelievable as they rubbed against my rough, unshaven face.

I looked up and saw from the look on her face that she was in absolute ecstasy. Her beautiful tits bounced and swayed as she squirmed on top of me, humping her pussy against my face.

I grabbed her ass and squeezed hard as she cried out and grabbed at the back of my neck.

I sucked hard on her clitoris as my tongue lapped hungrily. Her second orgasm lasted twice as long as the first, and her pussy was gushing the sweetest cream I’ve ever tasted.

The taste and heat and wetness of her pussy – the gorgeous look of her naked body, squirming above me – it was all enough to keep my cock rock hard.

Anastasia turned and looked, smiling at how fully swollen my dick was, all sticky and shiny, wet from my cum eruption a few minutes earlier.

She began easing herself backward toward my cock, her beautiful ass up in the air as she fed me a taste of her nipples and then kept sliding down. My erect cock stopped her progress as her wet slit came to rest against my slick shaft.

She looked down between her legs and smiled at the throbbing fat cock just under her dripping hot pussy. She grabbed the shaft and guided the swollen mushroom head into her wetness, closing her eyes and groaning as her pussy gobbled up all seven inches of my pulsing erection.

She rested her hands on my chest as she looked at me, her eyes blazing with lust. She began fucking me deep and wet and hard, faster and faster.

I want to cum again, Christian! her tone was commanding. Oh shit, let me cum all over this huge fucking cock! Oh, please baby, please!

She closed her eyes and used me as though I were her plaything. I watched her whole body shake as she fucked me, loving the way her amazing tits bounced harder with her growing passion.

I could tell by the hardness of her nipples and frantic way she slammed against me harder and harder: she was about to cum so fucking hard all over my cock.

“Oh god – oh fuck – oh fucking hell yesss!”

Her quivering pussy gripped my cock and milked it as she fucked me madly. She came and came, her pussy throbbing, her ass quivering, her tits shaking and pressing against my face as she fell on top of me, spent.

I sucked and kissed at her beautiful tits as they heaved against my face.

“My god, that was fantastic, Christian” she said, kissing me passionately.

We lay there for a minute and tried to catch our breath. She had cum three times, and the wonderful musky odor of her sweet pussy filled the air.

Still breathless, she smiled at me and said “I hope you don’t mind that I gave you that quickie blowjob, just to get started. I thought it was the best way to be sure you wouldn’t cum again right away while I fucked you as long as I wanted!”

She gave me a sweet but wet, deep, long romantic kiss.

“Now I’m going to do it right. You just relax and let me finish taking good care of you, baby. I’m going to nurse that huge beautiful cock so nice.”

Her voice trailed off and she licked her lips wetly, her mouth slightly open, anticipating what she was about to do with that stiff and throbbing shaft, sticky and wet with her pussy juice.

What had happened before was so quick and raunchy. She literally had just fallen onto my cock and deep throat me into a quick hard orgasm.

Now, it was different; Anastasia was taking her sweet time and it was obvious the she was enjoying every minute.

It was amazing to see her focusing all her attention on pleasuring me with her mouth and hands, bringing me to unbelievable heights of pleasure.

As much as I wanted to feel her touch, she made me feel like she wanted it even more.

It was quite simply the most amazingly loving and sensuous blowjob of my life. Her beautiful naked body, still shaking and hot from her multiple orgasms, looked like a dream in the dimly lit room.

She absolutely loved sucking a fat dick, and I couldn’t believe how incredible it was to watch her stretch her mouth around the shaft, drooling and sucking.

Montreal Nurse

The sensation of heat from her mouth, combined with the vibrations on my cock head as she groaned passionately every time my cock went down her throat, was unlike anything I’d ever experienced.

It lasted for twenty minutes, and it was heaven.

“Oh yes, give me that cum now” she said, knowing I was getting close.

She continued stroking on my saliva-covered shaft as she sucked hungrily at the head.

“I want to see you pump out a nice thick load for me; give it to me now! Give me that cum, Christian — cum for me, baby!”

I felt like I had saved up a monumental load, my whole body shaking as I tried to hold back. At the sound of her command, I exploded, erupting in a rush of cum the second she demanded it.

My whole body stiffened as my balls tightened and began to shoot. I could feel that amazing pumping sensation at the base of my cock, as thick ropes of cum shot up like a fucking fountain.

She grabbed my cock with both hands and kept pumping until I had spent my entire load of jizz all over hands, her arms, and those amazing tits.

Cum dripped from her nipples; I was dumbfounded by the intensity of my explosion and how she had literally commanded the cum to erupt from my balls.

Slowly and carefully, not wanting to let this amazing moment end too quickly, she cleaned me up. She stayed as she was, beautifully naked as she gently washed my cock and balls with hot wet cloths and soft, slow caresses.

After she tucked me in, she then gathered up her own clothes.

I watched, mesmerized, as she put her sexy lacy bra into my bag, telling me she’d like to have me keep a souvenir. She put on her blouse, not even bothering to clean my cum off her tits.

She buttoned up as I watched cum spots soak through the sheer fabric.

She left the top two buttons undone so I could watch the show as she wiggled into her tight jeans, sighing softly as she buttoned them up against her smooth naked pussy.

Her nipples jutted hard against the fabric of her cum-stained top. She bent over and picked her panties up off the floor.

Here, love she whispered as she laid them on my pillow, next to my cheek. “Something to help give you sweet dreams.”

She kissed me one more time as the sweet fragrance of her pussy came up from the damp lacy panties on my pillow. Without saying another word, she turned and walked out after giving my cock one last squeeze with her hand.

I was floating the entire night, not feeling one bit of pain from my knee.

As I dreamed of Anastasia, all I could feel was the warmth of her mouth on my cock, the wetness of her wonderfully sweet pussy against my mouth, and the smoothness of her quivering thighs against my face.

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Whether you’re a young couple utilizing all your energy or you’ve been together for decades, there is never a limit to how much fun you have had in the bedroom.

This can be as simple as introducing a new toy or exploring kinks that you never felt comfortable sharing. A bedroom is a place for communication, as well as fun times.

Below are five kinky ideas for the bedroom. Keep reading to get some inspiration!

1. Bondage

Bondage is one of the first places couples go for kinky sex ideas. This can mean rope, collars, or handcuffs. The decisions come down to what you’re comfortable with.

Check out some tips for beginners that are wanting to try bondage for the first time.

2. Switching Roles

Feel free to give up power or take power for once. Switching up the power dynamic can be a great way to experience new pleasures and know what the other partner feels during sex.

3. Introduce New Toys

There is a wide variety of toys that stretched beyond just your standard vibrator. You have everything from nipple clamps to masturbation toys for both sexes to anal training.

Look through a website that sells toys and find out what you and your partner are willing to try. Some kinky bedroom ideas might come to mind while you’re browsing the store.

4. Watching But No Touching

You can partake in the act of mutual masturbation or even single masturbation while the other watches. You can set rules about if or how they can watch you or touch you and build up the anticipation that comes from wanting the other partner.

For an extra bit of spice, consider going to separate parts of the house and setting up a webcam on either a computer or phone. You can then watch from a distance and partake in a form of voyeurism.

5. Communicate Kinks and Watch a “Movie”

Discuss kinks with each other to find out if there is anything either of you gets really turned on by. This creates a line of trust and communication that is an integral part of sex.

Once a kink has been decided on and you want to see if it interests either of you, you can try finding a kinky movie or porn that matches the kink.

This will allow both of you to see what the kink entails and how you can incorporate it into the bedroom. Just be sure to find one that is realistic and doesn’t set unrealistic standards.

Use These Kinky Ideas for the Bedroom to Increase Your Sex Life

By using these kinky ideas for the bedroom, you’re not only spicing up your sex life but also getting better at communication.

You learn the ins and outs of your partner more and may find that your sex life increases because you two have something to look forward to now.

If you want to learn more about getting better at sex and communication, then be sure to check out the rest of our blog. Know a couple that could use some help? Send this article to them to help them out.

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You may have asked yourself this a time or two. What is the difference between a Kink and a Fetish? At its face a fetish is defined as a form of sexual desire of which an item, part of the body, item of clothing, etc. is involved in the play somehow to give increased pleasure that may or may not cause a release. If the object is not used however, the person is likely to release anyway. A Fetish on the other hand is when that object, item of clothing or body part is a necessity to have orgasm. Meaning if they don’t see, feel, hear, touch, or smell the object, they will not be able to release.

Currently the words fetish and kink are used one and the same. Any act that falls outside the “mainstream” norms. A great example is bondage. While the term may overlap, they are drastically different. A fetish is more of a psychological need while kink is more of a preference. The important thing to remember is, all fetishes are kinks but not all kinks are fetishes. It is very individualized and are more widely accepted. Before playing you need to have the consent and safety conversation with your mate{s} about what it is that you are and are not willing to do or experience. This is imperative to keep the scene from turning traumatic.

It might include BDSM, roleplaying or impact play such as spanking and whipping. You might enjoy flogging or nipple claps. All you must do is speak up for yourself and ask for what is going to give you pleasure. Dominatrix and Submissive are apart of the BDSM scene. One doe not become a servant over night and a Dom does not become a Dom overnight. There are schools such as The BDSM Training Academy that can teach you how to excel and become an excellent player, there are also retreats and meet ups where you can learn techniques and skills needed to play safe, provide orgasm and have fun with the experience.

I savagely stand by my heart and mind that fetishes that include harming kids, animals, blood etc. are not forms of play but acts of traumatic distress. You are not on the same level if you enjoy the smell of an orange or to caress a breast while releasing. If you want to be spanked until your cherry red, this is your prerogative but there is a difference between abuse, kink, and fetish. You need to make sure you know where that line is and that you never cross it. Create a safe word or action (in case your mouth is tied) that your partner will understand to mean stop. Some Sexual Behavior experts do agree that fetishes can come from seeing inappropriate sexual behavior in early childhood or from abuse. These fetishes develop in the early life and grow as an individual progresses through life.

Most kinks and fetishes are not a disorder by definition. It all depends on the level of intense lasting distress. You need to adopt the belief that if pleasure is the end goal, it is OK. If you are forcing them to take part in any activity, this is not and will never be OK. You or someone you know should seek professional help if the behavior becomes compulsive, desperate and/or distressed to the level of becoming suicidal.

Of course, some fetishes are harmless. “Adult baby diaper lovers” is a practice by 1,800 men and 140 women according to a recent study. Most of the subjects reported they were “comfortable” with their fetish and saw no problem in practice it. This can be said for individuals who enjoy bondage, discipline or BDSM. If everyone agrees, the chances are no one is getting hurt in a way that is extreme or permanent and everyone.
Know that people can fetishize almost anything. Studies show that body parts such as feet, body features such as obesity, piercings, tattoos and splooshing are some of the top activities. When the fixation is on one body part, this is known as partialism. This involves one body part that is isolated and sexually charged or objectified. Body fluid, body size and hair fetishes are some of the other things that people fetishize. Sometimes clothes worn on the hips and legs such as stockings and skirts are at the top of the list for some. Some like to dress in furry animal costumes or have their partners do it.

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Looking for new ways to explore and push your sexual boundaries in the bedroom?

Think Kink.

On Ashley Madison, one of the top 10 preferences married men and women say they are looking for is light, kinky fun. Experts say that, with good communication and clear consent, incorporating a little 50 shades style play into your sex life can be more exciting (and less intimidating) than you ever imagined.

Leather and latex aren’t your thing? Kink-inspired adventures can be customized to cover an almost endless range of turn-ons and experiences—from mild to wild.

Even simple additions—like vibrators, ice cubes, massage oil and sexually-charged outfits—can unleash hot and sexy explorations between the sheets.

From light kinky fun to more intense suggestions, the Ashley Madison team has assembled a few tips on how to help you find new moments of erotic fun with your lover or affair partner.

Why are So Many People Talking About Kink on Ashley Madison?

Popular culture and more open, modern views on sexuality is making 50 shades-inspired play more mainstream and “normal” than ever before.

Kink, once a forbidden taboo, is finding its place in the privacy of bedrooms around the globe as more and more lovers become inspired by popular books, movies, TV shows and more.

Experts say this new openness and awareness about kink is encouraging lovers and affair partners to become more open in expressing their sexual needs and fantasies.

In fact, a study published in the Journal of Sex Research discovered that only 55% of couples are sexually satisfied—but those who said they are satisfied were the ones who had more frequent–and more varied–sex lives.

Another modern day revelation is that kink encompasses many shades and doesn’t have to be full-blown BDSM.

Kink can start from experimental, reasonably tame foreplay and progress onward as desires evolve and lovers become more comfortable in discussing their sexual turn-ons.

Our Ashley Madison kink guide starts at the bare VANILLA of sex. If you mostly favor standard sex and secretly dream of boundary-breaking intimacy, this is for you.

Here are a few expert tips on how to start exploring a new world of pleasure!

Beginners Guide to Kink

Starting mild? Talk about the suggestions below with your lover or affair partners to see how far you’ll go.

Mild:

• Oil Foreplay Massage
• Food and Sense Foreplay (Licking, Biting, Edibles, Ice Cubes, Feathers)
• Describing Each Person’s Ultimate Sexual Fantasy/Role Play to Each Other

Getting Warmer

• Acting Out a Sexual Fantasy/Role Play and Introducing it as a Story
• Blindfolded Teasing Foreplay Incorporating Food and Sense
• Single or Multi-Pleasure Sex Toys to use During the Role Play/Story  

A Little Wild

• Male/Female Domination within the Role Play/Story
• Impact Play (Spanking, Biting, Handcuffs, Restraints)
• Warm Wax Play

Mild to Wild Toy and Tool Kit:

Mild:

• Massage Oil
• Feathers, Ice Cubes
• Licking Chocolate, Edible Lotions 

Getting Warmer:

• Solo Vibrators/Couples Rings
• Blindfolds
• Handcuffs
• Restraints

A Little Wild:

• Whips
• Ropes
• Hot Wax
• Leather or Latex Outfits

Expert Tips & Advice

• Start small. Introduce mild, stimulating foreplay in a lit bedroom or go for light, kinky sex in the shower. If it sounds like fun to you and your partner, introduce a variety of edible lotions and potions to take things to a new, sensual level.

• Buy some steamy novels and sex guides to help inspire you and your affair partners. Choose one or two new things you’d each like to try and talk it through to make sure you both agree on how and when to introduce those experiences in the bedroom.

• If you’re into it, send racy sexts—or leave erotic notes for your partner—to help drive anticipation for your next encounter.

• Ask your lover about a few of their fantasies and play them out, costumes and all.

• Blindfold or handcuff your partner as you perform on them orally.

• If it feels good, incorporate stimulating vibrations and love bites as you progress into the hot and heavy activities.

Experts urge couples and lovers to create a sexual story together.

In this story, the couples are the lead characters and progress the plot by building up each other’s sexual stimulation and anticipation through gestures and actions that turn each of them on.

The characters they create are meant to express an attribute of each person’s sexuality, that in which they can explore fully with one another. There are no limits to what each person’s sexual desires entail, as this is a safe zone.

Communication is KEY, especially if your stories become more detailed, with hints of dominance, submission, and sadomasochism starting to be introduced.

You and your partner must develop a safe word and be sure to communicate your thoughts afterward in order to tailor your experience to each others’ needs and preferences. The importance of aftercare should also be something you plan for in advance, because you’ll most likely need to check in with each other and offer support as part of kinkier sexual experiences.

Some couples find it helpful to see a sex therapist to help them explore and navigate new ways to connect – and it can also be helpful to download online sex menus and books to help clarify and define how far you’ll explore the world of kink together.

Experts strongly suggest setting a safe-zone time limit when you first start engaging in kink activities, to allow you to check-in with your partner before things get too hot and heavy.

What if Your Partner Is Just Not That Into Kink?

Kink isn’t for everyone, and if your partner or lover cringes or panics at the thought of transitioning from vanilla sex, you’ll need to respect their wishes, be understanding and go slow.

The fact is that some people are just not that into kink. As reported in The Guardian, research conducted by Queen’s University found that brain waves and sexual arousal directly correlate to what turns different people on. Some people are simply more aroused by adventurous sex, while others get the same levels of arousal from a more straightforward, traditional approach to sex.

If this is the case for your partner, and they’re only entertaining the idea of participating to fulfill your own sexual desires, SLOW the process down and always respect their wishes.  

Experts say patience is a powerful and necessary trust builder when it comes to trying new forms of sex play. Communicate clearly throughout and transition slowly into new forms of intimate play. Always make sure your partner knows that they are appreciated, respected, and not being judged for anything they are doing or feeling.

If you’re new to kink and are looking for an affair/polyamory partner to help you explore; it’s important to be very honest about what you’re looking for—and seek someone out who’s comfortable expressing their own desires in a straightforward and upfront way.

Be sure to fill out the preferences section of your Ashley Madison profile and be clear about what turns you on. 

Ideally, you should start slowly and seek out someone who catches your eye and is on a similar place on the kink spectrum, or is willing to slowly teach you the ropes. And, as with all encounters on Ashley Madison, it’s important to communicate with everyone you meet with respect and no judgment – and follow these tips for safe dating.  

Any time you try a new sexual adventure, it’s normal to be nervous, so start slow, stay open-minded, communicate clearly—and take time to educate yourself about the world of kink.  

When you and your partner are ready, take the plunge and experience the untapped pleasures and passion that kink-inspired play can bring into your sex life.

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